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| Author: | Xkhanx [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 6:52 AM ] |
| Post subject: | Re: first time jitters... |
Yeah, they always say "Looks don't matter!" and in the same eath they say "but there has to be some kind of physical atraction there, know what I mean?" < > < > Yes, we know what you mean. Looks do matter. A lot. Unless the money factor is thrown in, then all bets are off. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Caladaar [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 8:22 AM ] |
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Men are not crazy.< > < > Women just think we are more complicated than we really are.< > < > We need three things:< > < > Food< > Sex< > Sleep< > < > In that order. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Masterin123 [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 8:24 AM ] |
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Beer. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Caladaar [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 8:31 AM ] |
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I count that under food <i></i> |
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| Author: | Austriana [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 9:20 AM ] |
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Honestly, I've seen more good-looking women with ugly or average looking guys than I've seen good-looking men with ugly or average looking women.< > < > Also, speaking from experience and from dealing with my male friends, women are quicker to get over looks and go by personality than men. Initial attraction is often based upon looks...but for many women I know (myself included), that takes a backseat to personality and intelligence.< > < > I think Tarot is dead on in her judgement. < > <i></i> |
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| Author: | Neesha the Necro [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 9:48 AM ] |
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"personality" = "bankroll"< > < > Gotcha /nod <i></i> |
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| Author: | Austriana [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 9:53 AM ] |
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Considering my last boyfriend was a guy that was a full time student with a part time job making less than $150/week...I will disagree with you, Neesha. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Numruk [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 9:57 AM ] |
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I make more than that from monthly scholarship bursaries from the government. How did you survive? ---------< > Dolalin<i></i> |
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| Author: | Neesha the Necro [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 10:06 AM ] |
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Big penis or easy on the eyes? <i></i> |
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| Author: | Neesha the Necro [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 10:08 AM ] |
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That was directed at Austy, not Dolamite.... <i></i> |
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| Author: | Austriana [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 10:13 AM ] |
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It wasn't me surving on that, Dola...it was him. He had a handful of scholarships + GI bill that paid for rent and tuition. < > < > Average penis (not small, but nothing to write home about), average looks...not someone that most girls would consider 'hot.' Fantastic personality. Fun to be with, great conversationalist, intelligent and we had a lot in common. So it was a fun relationship.< > < > (p.s. wtf is up with ezboard logging me out constantly? I've had to sign back in several times in the past couple of days...more today than before) <i></i> |
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| Author: | Astilbee [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 10:19 AM ] |
| Post subject: | Re: first time jitters... |
after you get to know and love someone do you even remember what they really look like? < > < > Looks are what you first see yes....but after you become friends that kind of falls behind on what you notice...after that it's do they put the cap on the toothpaste ..pick up their dirty socks ...that kind of thing is more important....< > < > Sooo Neesh ..which category do you fall in : )< > /giggles< > < > < > Bee< > < > < > < > "My free spirit flies with the eagles As it runs with the wolves below Just whisper my name to the wind when you need me, I will know." cm<i></i> |
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| Author: | Arkayn420 [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 10:25 AM ] |
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Don't you like girls, Bee? That's hot imho. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Astilbee [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 10:28 AM ] |
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define like girls?< > < > I am too old to dislike anyone : )< > < > Bee< > < > "My free spirit flies with the eagles As it runs with the wolves below Just whisper my name to the wind when you need me, I will know." cm<i></i> |
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| Author: | Arkayn420 [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 11:10 AM ] |
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As in like sexually. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Astilbee [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 11:26 AM ] |
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nope sorry . ... but I won't hate you if you don't think I am cool now : )< > < > Bee "My free spirit flies with the eagles As it runs with the wolves below Just whisper my name to the wind when you need me, I will know." cm<i></i> |
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| Author: | Neesha the Necro [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 11:39 AM ] |
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Honestly, I don't have a certain "type". I tend to go out with pretty good looking girls, but that is usually a product of the crowd I hang out with. The whole "good looking people stick together" theory (I don't include myself in that category, I just have some pretty decent-looking sisters who have hot friends, yada yada yada). I don't normally have a girlfriend that's exclusive, we just go out, do our thing, and keep it simple. I used to love the friends with benefits thing, but now I am trying to get away from that, which doesn't always work out the way I hope (sadface). Too bad the true love of my life is a crazy drunk with an ex-husband who's a towtruck driver and a son who's a crazy, out-of-control kid that will probably fail 1st grade. It must be God's way of torturing me for not praying every night... <i></i> |
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| Author: | Eckertsyrjay [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 12:10 PM ] |
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The below equations are basically how it is going to work out for you; so set your expectations. The left side is your status and the right is the type of chic.< > < > $$ = hottie< > $+good looks = hottie - above average< > !$+good looks = above average - average< > !$+average = average - below average< > !$+ugly=ugly< > < > For you desperate souls just go ugly early..< > < > That is all. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Lou [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 12:13 PM ] |
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for those that aren't aware ! means 'not'< > < > so !$ would be not rich < > My Profile - Oryx<i></i> |
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| Author: | DeroSoulrender [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 1:20 PM ] |
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Saint Tgu ministers to the math impaired.< > < > <i></i> |
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| Author: | Fribur [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 1:22 PM ] |
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< > < > factorial! <i></i> |
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| Author: | Arkayn420 [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 1:24 PM ] |
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Quote:nope sorry . ... but I won't hate you if you don't think I am cool now< > Are you kidding me?! You've always been cool in my eyes. Who else has 9000 posts in the Druid forum?! <i></i> |
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| Author: | Lou [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 1:46 PM ] |
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factorials give me nightmares from my logics course back in the day. < > My Profile - Oryx<i></i> |
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| Author: | Hopereaver [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 1:46 PM ] |
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Quote:For guys who get the friends speech all the time though, there's a reason. Sooner you discover it and remedy it, the happier you'll be.< > < > That's funny since I could name at least six people who tried the "nice" route first and got to be "friends", and then switched their stratagy to "asshole" and get laid all the time. <i></i> |
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| Author: | DeroSoulrender [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 1:51 PM ] |
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C'mon Tgu, do a first order differential equation for me... <i></i> |
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| Author: | Orme the Singing Bard [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 3:40 PM ] |
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The friend I've described above having girl problems is 6'1", clean complexion, benches 250, weighs about 185 (probably a tad skinny - but ripped), and makes just over $100k a year. < > < > He's not OMG HOT, but I know enough what is attractive, and he is a decent looking guy. < > < > So, $$$ + average/good looks does not equal HOTTIE or even better. A lot of it is about "game". Not mind games, but knowing how to lay the bait. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Arkayn420 [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 3:44 PM ] |
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I have seen smooth talkers with "game" get more ass than good looking shy people. <i></i> |
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| Author: | BovinityDivinity [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 4:46 PM ] |
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How come every time someone comes here asking for "relationship" advice, the thread eventually turns into a thread about "getting laid a lot"? <i></i> |
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| Author: | DarkOmen42 [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 5:43 PM ] |
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But then again... no one is talking about themselves... Marauder Harabakc Goat<i></i> |
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| Author: | Orme the Singing Bard [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 7:52 PM ] |
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Quote:How come every time someone comes here asking for "relationship" advice, the thread eventually turns into a thread about "getting laid a lot"? Just curious, who is talking about getting laid alot?< > < > I know you like to feel smart and post your dipshit one-liners, but could you at least make some effort to have relevence to the current discussion? <i></i> |
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| Author: | Drajeck [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 9:34 PM ] |
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There's actually been a lot of good advice in this thread. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Arkayn420 [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 9:43 PM ] |
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No one is talking about getting laid, and I agree this has been a really good and informative thread from all sides of the spectrum. <i></i> |
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| Author: | BovinityDivinity [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 10:22 PM ] |
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Quote:Just curious, who is talking about getting laid alot?< > < > I know you like to feel smart and post your dipshit one-liners, but could you at least make some effort to have relevence to the current discussion?< > < > Read much? <i></i> |
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| Author: | some merchant [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 10:25 PM ] |
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Translation: I have no actual responce to your question, so I'll make a witty comment in hopes no one notices. < > < > <i></i> |
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| Author: | TarotofLanys [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 10:26 PM ] |
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Quote:That's funny since I could name at least six people who tried the "nice" route first and got to be "friends", and then switched their stratagy to "asshole" and get laid all the time.< > < > Obviously I don't know the six people you're referring to, but perhaps their strategy changed from nice guy: "I'd like to find someone nice and have a relationship" to asshole: "I'll fuck a bar hag".< > < > The latter will get you laid more often. Just stock up on penicillin. The Birth of Tarot (NSFW)< >< > Keep my head from exploding?...<b>You can help!</b><i></i> |
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| Author: | BovinityDivinity [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 10:32 PM ] |
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Quote:Translation: I have no actual responce to your question, so I'll make a witty comment in hopes no one notices.< > < > No, it's more like, "If you were reading the last fucking 3 pages of this thread, you wouldn't need me to recite the posts to you to see that it's gone from people offering advice to people talking about picking chicks up at a bar to fuck them, and getting half their info off Elimidate apparently."< > < > But, as usual, I had to go and spell it out, or else the elite academic minds of the internet gaming community were going to make fun of me. And I certainly couldn't have that, or else Conan O'Brian and I would have to go hide in a corner and cry. <i></i> |
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| Author: | some merchant [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 10:39 PM ] |
| Post subject: | Re: first time jitters... |
Can we go back to you not posting? < > < > <i></i> |
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| Author: | BovinityDivinity [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 10:41 PM ] |
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Quote:Can we go back to you not posting?< > < > Translation: I have no actual responce to your question, so I'll make a witty comment in hopes no one notices. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Arkayn420 [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 11:03 PM ] |
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Bov you lost your touch in your little hiatus. <i></i> |
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| Author: | BovinityDivinity [ Thu Apr 20, 2006 11:05 PM ] |
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I never had the touch, I'm just a grouchy old bastard. <i></i> |
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| Author: | TheDukeOfNuke [ Fri Apr 21, 2006 6:03 AM ] |
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Quote:I never had the touch, I'm just a grouchy old bastard.< > < > The first relavent and correct thing you have said all thread. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Xkhanx [ Fri Apr 21, 2006 7:03 AM ] |
| Post subject: | Re: first time jitters... |
Maybe a few are talking about just getting laid, but my advice was to enable CC to overcome the 'looks' aspect that all women claim doesn't exist.< > < > If I were talking about picking up chicks in a bar for some no strings attached sex, my advice would be a lot different. <i></i> |
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| Author: | BovinityDivinity [ Fri Apr 21, 2006 8:30 AM ] |
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Quote:The first relavent and correct thing you have said all thread.< > < > I guess that puts me one ahead of you then, eh? <i></i> |
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| Author: | Hopereaver [ Fri Apr 21, 2006 4:56 PM ] |
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Quote:The latter will get you laid more often. Just stock up on penicillin. < > < > < > < > Perhaps I worded that wrong, but even in just general relationships, at least 80% of the guys I know have better luck being assholes. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Orme the Singing Bard [ Fri Apr 21, 2006 9:23 PM ] |
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Bovinity, you are a fuck up.< > < > Your worthlessness on this thread is a copy of the garbage I was razzing Neesha about a week or two ago: the mindless sniping.< > < > The concept is simple: try to toss a zinger and feel smart. The whole routine is fucking stale. Back when bagsworth was the only one doing it, there was a bit of flavor. But now, all the burn-outs are doing it.< > < > Christ, I feel for bagsworth - you morons stole his schtick. < > < > If you're going to vomit on a thread, at least try to be funny or witty or on-topic. There's been almost no talk on this thread about getting laid, you dolt. Then, your illiant reply to my post: "READ MUCH". Artful dear poster, truly artful. < > < > I should ask if READ MUCH. The majority of this thread has revolved around how to establish a relationship for people who are a bit backward. I'm too lazy to check, but I don't recall anyone using a phrase like "here's how you get laid" or "I get so much ass and I'm so cool". People have been having a refreshingly interesting conversation.< > < > It's not like you ruined the thread. However, your stupidity is on ample display. If you witless dullards are going to insist on the weak ass sniping, you're going to get called on it.< > < > And OH WAIT. Let me guess, now you reply with a one liner. Whatever it is, I'm sure it will be some super-gay attempt to project "coolness". But in the end, you will reamin a sorry, unamusing bitch. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Gamrok [ Sat Apr 22, 2006 12:53 AM ] |
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Read the first page..< > Quote:With a name like Cicely Goldenfair you must be gay. Perhaps women aren't your thing. Try asking Cak out.< > < > Quote of the thread, had to be said.< > < > Orme already absolutely closed this thread with his post.< > < > Gonna go back and read the rest though. Gamrok Lazyarse< > <i></i> |
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| Author: | ChiasmaSunbeem [ Sun Apr 23, 2006 6:15 AM ] |
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Quote:The concept is simple: try to toss a zinger and feel smart. The whole routine is fucking stale.< > < > /smile Translated this means: I (Orme) perfected the art (even though I am currently crediting Bagsworth and assigning my sympathies to him as a diversionary tactic), and just because I am in a chatty mood right now, doesn't mean I can't and won't go back to my snappy acronyms and short insults when I feel like it, so don't think you can beat me at it. When I do, it will be THE thing to do again (and I will once again be the reigning king, of course), but, for now, I say it is 'out of style' because I don't want to play that game at the moment, so cut it out. < > < > Actually I am enjoying Orme's currently chatty mood. But, let's give credit where credit is due. Bagsworth has never been able to toss out the zingers as well as Orme has, imho. Bags just doesn't have the finesse. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Givin Wetwillies01 [ Sun Apr 23, 2006 7:46 AM ] |
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Bullshit. < > <i></i> |
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| Author: | Masterin123 [ Mon Apr 24, 2006 5:31 AM ] |
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When has Orme posted one-liners? Chiasma just suddenly decided to grow peen but forgot to think first.< > < > Bz, I love you. First, for replacing the demon chick/fat guy, and, second, for replacing the kitty. Hold me. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Arkayn420 [ Mon Apr 24, 2006 10:11 AM ] |
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Quote:Bagsworth has never been able to toss out the zingers as well as Orme has, imho. Bags just doesn't have the finesse.< > No, Bagsworth will pull one word or phrase you said and beat it to death, and quote it every single thread you disagree with him on. I think the 420 on the end of my login name garnered me about 50 "pothead" responses from him a few years ago, among other things. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Masterin123 [ Mon Apr 24, 2006 10:21 AM ] |
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Shut up, stoner. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Arkayn420 [ Mon Apr 24, 2006 10:30 AM ] |
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Shut up I just started posting a month ago. <i></i> |
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| Author: | BovinityDivinity [ Tue Apr 25, 2006 7:10 AM ] |
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Yeah, Orme, you're so much cooler because you post a paragraph insulting someone, while chanting over and over again about "one-liners"< > < > What's really sad is that I wasn't even fucking talking about your over-sensitive whiny ass, I thought the early parts of the thread were actually very nice, where you posted your suggestions and such.< > < > But anyway, you can try to make it sound like you've just totally picked apart my "strategy" or something with your repeated "omg one-liners lol" posts, but the fact is that you do just as much sniping as anyone, you just slap a lot of fluff into the middle of the insults. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Guurn [ Tue Apr 25, 2006 12:16 PM ] |
| Post subject: | Re: first time jitters... |
Wow, I can't believe I blew this thread off till now. Ormes list of rules is almost the same as the ones I plan to tell my kid when he gets old enough.< > < > A few things. Find someone you want to date. Evaluate yourself and think, am I the kind of person that person would date. If you think you aren't you need to work on yourself (esteem etc) first. The keys to dating are almost the same as the keys to a happy life. Be an adult. Live your life the way that makes you happy. It is just like the people too embarrased to sing in church or go to the store and buy their wife tampons or their apartment flowers. Grow up and stop being afraid of what other people, usually strangers, think of you and your actions.< > < > After that is done. < > < > Walk up to the person you are interested in and introduce yourself. Noone, including the person of interest, cares where it is. Once you hit the first small lull in the conversation, usually about 5 mins in, ask for her name and number and walk away. It is hard to maintain a good dating conversation when you have no common experience to draw upon. If you blow of that advice andstruggle through you will notice that you both will be trying to find those common things. Too much hit and miss to set yourself up for a good date. Just say thanks and I'll give you a call in a few days.< > < > Call in a few days and set up a date. Again, there is no good reason to have a lengthy conversation at this point. 5 mins or so, don't wait for the lull, just say I have to get going to do whatever. See you on whatever day.< > < > Plan your date around things >you like to do<. Even if the date goes horrible at least you enjoyed the food or the movie or the comic. If you are having fun the odds of her having fun go way up. Doing something together that you enjoy also dovetails into conversation now and conversation later much better.< > < > Don't make the first date last more than 5 hours. Try to have about 60 minutes of the date be time that you guys can talk. That is why dinner and a movie works well. Interestingly I like the movie first in that equation. It gives you time for 25 mins of talking before the movie and also something to talk about for a few minutes after also. That is also why Ormes advice about comic clubs is great. Don't reiterate the comics jokes endlessly afterwards.< > < > Orme couldn't have been more spot on about ending the first date. Now the hardest part is over. If you go on 3 dates and aren't getting a good night kiss you are wasting your time or you aren't trying. Learn to move on. Don't waste your time and money on someone that isn't interested in you. < > < > About the bad boy stuff. I used to date ... plenty. At first I was a pussy and got walked all over. See the being adult advice above. Then I started an experiment. I was dating 3 women at the time. I decided to see how long I could go without paying for any meal, it lasted 2 weeks till I missed my first meal. The best part was they all were calling all the time to take care of me. This woke me up to using womens natural tendancies to be caregivers to my advantage. From then on I made it a point to ask them to ing something over to my house almost every time they came over. A bottle of wine, a 6 pack, a movie, just something.< > < > Remember what the goal is. You want someone to share your life. This means you have to have a life and so does she. Pick people to date that have interests of thier own. It was shocking to me when I dated how many people had no real interests. Going out to parties doesn't count. I know you don't know that when you ask them out for the first time, but it becomes apparent pretty damn fast. < > < > < > < > <i></i> |
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| Author: | Klompur [ Sat Apr 29, 2006 4:33 PM ] |
| Post subject: | Re: first time jitters... |
Heya. I just wanted to make a couple recommendations for you, Cicily. There are two great books you might like to pick up: < > < > How to Succeed with Women and The Game.< > < > I give these two my absolute highest recomendation. <i></i> |
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| Author: | Arkayn420 [ Sat Apr 29, 2006 5:15 PM ] |
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Not sure if Dr Love is still with http://www.askmen.com, but that's helpful, too. Most of his advice and suggestions go against what you naturally want to do, but it works. <i></i> |
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| Author: | noojens [ Sat Apr 30, 2011 6:14 PM ] |
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/randy |
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| Author: | Venen [ Sun May 01, 2011 1:07 AM ] |
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Wow, there's actually some funny shit in this one that I didn't recall. Thanks, Noojens =p |
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| Author: | cicely [ Thu May 12, 2011 3:05 PM ] |
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I cannot believe I did this five years ago. I laughed along with the rest of you |
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