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in the summer we'd get up, get on our bikes, and go play all day. When the shadows got short we'd come home for lunch. When the lights came on we would be home.
We would be in the woods, playing in the creek, fishing in one of the local lakes, playing ball in one of the nearby fields, or riding trails.
No computers, no cell phones but there was the Mom Network. All of our mom's seemed to have telepathy to one another as if one mom knew that we had done something "wrong" then all moms would know. If one mom called for one of us, then all of us knew it was time to go.
There were no organized "play dates" just our parents telling us "GO OUTSIDE AND PLAY"
Birthday parties were not a super sized event at some entertainment place that specializes in kid birthday parties. The best we could hope for would be a sleep-over or the king of all parties, a swim party. Still, those each of those parties would consist of us bringing a gift and eating cake and ice-cream.
All of us kids knew that we had to answer a grown-up's questions with yes/no sir/ma'am and if any parent told us to do something while at their house we knew that we'd better do it or we'd not only get a whipping there but when we got home.
If we were lucky to get to go out to dine with our parents we were expected to sit at the table and be quiet. We were not allowed to run around, scream or be disruptive while out. If we did we were punished when we got to the car and were not 'invited' to go again for a while.
A lot of that sounds about right!
It's shocking to me sometimes to see how little some parents care about what their kids are doing. Especially working in a library, it's amazing how parents will let their kids just run around, make all sorts of noise, tear books off the shelves and leave them anywhere. And if we say anything the parents give you that attitude where you know they're thinking the standard, "Don't tell me how to raise my kids!" stuff.
That and the fact that every kid seems to have a cell phone, iPhone, MP3 player, laptop, etc. People can blame childhood obesity on McDonalds all they want, but McDonalds was around a long time before this "epidemic" as they call it came about. Get the darn kids off their ass now and then.