talking to a woman online. i am interested her, she is indifferent. she has lots of qualities i like, some i dislike but am willing to accept. she lives a pretty high income lifestyle- expensive clothes, jewelry, cosmetics, the works. i know she likes money, and wants money and gifts and lots of it. so we message each other, i am trying to set up a time to meet each other to see if there is any chemistry between us.<
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actually, we did not meet in a chat room. i saw her picture in a magazine, did a google search on her, and was able to get her e-mail address. started writing e-mails to her just as a fan, then we started the instant messaging thing. and then we started to get to know each other a bit more as far as personal things go, and it turned from me being a fan of her looks to liking a lot about who and what she is- her talents, personality, etc.<
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well, the relationship did not start out noticing her picture in a magazine. there was never one in the first place. i sent her a 'fan mail' letter, which got responded, which turned out into daily conversation. conversation then started to get a bit more serious as far as topics and such went. that is probably when interest in her as a person (and not as a physical object) started.<
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You get more and more petty every day, Neesha. Congrats on being such a total twat.

You're welcome!

Personally I found it hilarious and normally I'm not a neesha fanboi.

Neesha found a post of some guy asking for advice about an internet girl, this is related to a post in which someone asks Neesha how the Astros are doing in the sports forum about how the Yankee's tanked.

Neesha was asked how the Astros were doing, he replied asking how internet women are.

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